Coming out of my shell

By Trupti Shende -

 This two months of lockdown has changed me but i really don't know for good or for bad. 

I have come out like a very different person. I think have finally broken my shell my insecurities and I'm just being and doing what I am and what I feel like. One of the best thing this 2 month lockdown did to me was I have finally accepted the fact like the more you care about what people think about you the more you get anxiety and inferior complex issues. 

This lockdown just changed a part of me and boom I really feel as if I'm altogether changed into a better person atleast at my perspective. I have started caring less about people and started concentrating more on me. 

I'm no more insecure about my place in everyone's life. Like why should I care if I really matter to them or not. I'm really precious to my family and my closest people and that's what is important. 

Honestly I have finally accepted myself in general. 

I don't care what everyone feels or says, I don't care if I matter to them or not because at the end of the day I matter to my family and that's what is more important to me. 

I have finally made peace with the fact that people don't matter to me. I mean they do only till some extent . 

Talking about which I have finally given retirement to my insecurities about everything. I just wanted to share what this lockdown has done to me. 

Do come out and share your changes! 

I'm all ears to you! 


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