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Mastering Adulting: A Comprehensive Guide to Navigating Life Like a Pro

By Trupti Shende -
 INTRODUCTION :  Welcome to the ultimate adulting guide! Whether you're a recent graduate, a young professional, or someone just trying to adult like a boss, this blog post is packed with practical tips and advice to help you conquer the challenges of adulthood. From managing finances to maintaining a work-life balance, we've got you covered. I) Budgeting, Saving, and Investing: Your Roadmap to Financial Success : In this section, we'll delve into crucial aspects of financial adulting. Learn how to create a realistic budget, save money effectively, and make smart investment decisions. Boost your financial literacy and pave the way for a secure future. II) Climbing the Corporate Ladder: Strategies for Professional Success: Unlock the secrets to excelling in your career. From effective networking and resume building to mastering the art of time management, this section will guide you in becoming a standout professional in your field. III) Balancing Act: Prioritizing Your Men...
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Setting boundaries

By Trupti Shende -
 long time no seeee!! past few months I'hve   been suffering ,struggling to make up my mind.  There's a constant invisible arguement and a fight going on and on between my heart and my brain, There's this constant conversation going on but didnt have enough courage to owe things up and stand for myself.  I have been keeping my mouth shut to as to stop and to avoid conflicts, but this in turn has taken a toll on my mental sanity. It's been difficult to face my insecurities and obviously my people pleasing factor. Its time I have finally realised my worth and already on my way to work on myself. Finally setting my boundaries, not gonna let people me for granted anymore.
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Questioning your self worth??

By Trupti Shende -
 It's been a while since I have written, recent few months have been a total rollercoaster ride for me. And honestly I think it's time for me to write a bit more sensible stuff rather than just bluffing around. The other day I went to this function , a social event and me being an introvert had like zero ounce of patience to go talk around and then this thought just flashed into mind. Like why do we always question our worth just because someone you know, may not know doubts you ?  I mean I'm not here to prove things to you , and why should I question my worth just because someone else thinks of me in a certain way. Also there are times when people randomly downgrade you for either the way you are or the way you don't fit. Here don't question your worth. It's the best thing that you don't fit in, you have different stand and not a part of the crowd. Sometimes even during a light conversation someday or the other people question your worth..but ask your self ...
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Reality Check

By Trupti Shende -
  In recent months or say years, been acknowledging the fact that the more you suppress your feelings, emotions and every kind of emotional rollercoaster ride life takes you on. Over a period of time which  might take you days, months or even years, which is a really long timespan for one. But one day or other there's an outburst of all your feelings and pent up emotions, frustration , failures and what not. You know it's easy for one to say '' oh! you can talk your heart out '' but alas! it is as difficult and inconvenient as it might not seem. Basically, in layman terms and language, you might have seen a rubber band as long as you stretch it , it rebounds to its normal shape with double of the force one has applied while stretching a rubber band. This rubber band stands a perfect and most accurate example that could explain the situation. Anxiety, FOMO, loneliness are most common product of this pent up feelings that you keep stuffed inside you. Also covid ha...
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By Trupti Shende -
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 A DAY TO REMEMBER   Starting off I'm really sorry for being inactive for this longgggg. Hearty apologies. But iI guess it is time I finally have a comeback and look after my baby. Last few months have been a hell of rollercoaster ride for me in all aspects of my life. Honestly its been the most hectic and tiring year of my life. I'm just glad to have my hands and heart in sync again. I can't believe its been freaking 4 years of my life in some different part of the state and also that I have survived or rather say I LIVED !!!! On the days ending to my degree I spent my days with best people, it was all worth it and also magical couldn't believe still.... We visited to the most amazing place anyone would like to visit specially in rainy season. Loved every bit of the trip. The greenery was scenic and hypnotizing as well, and also the most important aspect my bunch of closest friends. We visited the RASALGAD FORT.  It lies 15 km east of   Khed City . All we did w...
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Coming out of my shell

By Trupti Shende -
 This two months of lockdown has changed me but i really don't know for good or for bad.  I have come out like a very different person. I think have finally broken my shell my insecurities and I'm just being and doing what I am and what I feel like. One of the best thing this 2 month lockdown did to me was I have finally accepted the fact like the more you care about what people think about you the more you get anxiety and inferior complex issues.  This lockdown just changed a part of me and boom I really feel as if I'm altogether changed into a better person atleast at my perspective. I have started caring less about people and started concentrating more on me.  I'm no more insecure about my place in everyone's life. Like why should I care if I really matter to them or not. I'm really precious to my family and my closest people and that's what is important.  Honestly I have finally accepted myself in general.  I don't care what everyone feels or says, I...
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An introvert overthinker

By Trupti Shende -
 Initially, when we start doing this particular thing we got highly motivated for, uk like making all those fake scenarios in our head what if we become like the best person doing that thing? Even before starting to do it we imagine things hell lot of times, even before knowing if we could do it successfully in a try Or it's gonna be a long journey.. All we think is about the after party the after success kinda thing and not about what the journey is gonna be about, and yea absolutely not about how we gonna start, implement our creative ideas or maybe be consistent with it.  Even now when I'm penning this down all I'm thinking about what's outcome is gonna be like..  Talking about which makes me high with anxiety , like honestly even me, I never think about the ups and downs of the journey or maybe facing emotional crisis in my life.  Just when I think yea this is what I want , that's when my boat takes a whirling turn and turn things different,.. Just when I get no...
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